Reviewed byNurlan Isayev, MDAddiction psychiatrist, experience 10 years · updated 8 Nov 2026
Key facts
- Who provides it
- An addiction medicine doctor (narcologist), and a psychotherapist or psychiatrist if needed
- Where
- At the clinic, by video call, or at home during a mobile team visit
- Duration
- About 60 minutes; a course of family sessions starts at 4–6 sessions
- Anonymity
- You don’t have to give either your own surname or your loved one’s
- When it’s urgent
- Threats, violence, overdose, seizures, delirium, talk of suicide — call 103 or 112
- Outcome
- A clear understanding of the situation, a safety plan and a strategy for talking about treatment
What you should know
Most often, the person who calls me at night is not the person with the addiction but their mother. Her son hasn’t left his room for three days and doesn’t answer the phone, and she doesn’t know whether to call a doctor, call the police or wait. On calls like this, I quickly realize that two people need treatment: the person with the addiction, for withdrawal, and the relative, for panic, guilt and the habit of rescuing at any cost. That is exactly why we consider a family consultation full-fledged medical care, not an add-on.
At the meeting, I first ask questions about the person themselves: what they use, how often, whether there have been seizures, aggression or thoughts of death. This is to understand whether there is danger right now. Then we talk about the family: who does what, who gives money, who covers for them at work. Relatives from Turksib district or from Otegen Batyr often come as a couple, and it turns out right there in the office that they are acting in opposite ways and, without meaning to, are helping keep the substance use going.
When Families Need a Consultation with an Addiction Doctor
- you don’t know whether your loved one’s condition is dangerous right now and whether to call a doctor
- every conversation about treatment ends in a fight, promises and another relapse
- the family keeps covering the person’s debts, missed work or lies
- you feel guilty, can’t sleep, feel anxious and can think of nothing but your loved one
- children in the family see adults intoxicated, fighting or behaving aggressively
- your loved one has agreed to treatment, and you need to understand how to support them without controlling them
- a relapse has started after treatment, and it isn’t clear how to respond
If two or three points apply, it is worth seeing a doctor. Phone advice is free and confidential. If life is at risk, call 103 or 112.
Why the Family Becomes Part of the Problem — and Part of the Solution
Addiction changes the whole system of relationships in a household. Relatives gradually adapt: they hide alcohol, pay off debts and call the boss with excuses. It is a natural wish to protect someone, but it shields the person from the consequences of their substance use and weakens their motivation to get treatment. Psychologists call this codependency. Its signs include constant anxiety, controlling behavior and the loss of one’s own interests and health.
International guidelines, including approaches based on reinforcing sober behavior (such as community reinforcement and family training), show that when the family changes its own behavior, the likelihood that the person with the addiction will seek treatment rises noticeably. This is not about ultimatums or fights but about consistent actions, a calm tone and clear boundaries. These are skills that can be learned in a few sessions with a specialist.
How a Consultation for Relatives Works, Step by Step
After you call, the dispatcher will ask whether there is a threat to life right now and, if so, will immediately offer a home visit or advise calling 103. If there is no acute danger, an appointment is scheduled at the clinic or by video. The doctor takes a history of your loved one’s substance use, assesses the risks, then looks at how the family behaves and draws up a plan together with you: what to say, what to stop doing, when to suggest treatment and whom to call if things get worse.
A consultation does not replace treatment for the person with the addiction: without their participation, the doctor does not make a diagnosis or prescribe medication. If your loved one threatens violence or has delirium, hallucinations, seizures or signs of overdose, call 103 or 112, and in the case of threats, call the police. Secretly adding medication to someone’s food or drink is not allowed: it is life-threatening and against the law.
How we help
Risk assessment and safety plan
Based on the family’s account, the doctor determines how dangerous the loved one’s condition is: the risk of delirium, overdose, suicide or aggression. A safety plan is then drawn up: which phone numbers to keep on hand, where to store medications and sharp objects, when to call 103 immediately and when to call the clinic’s on-call doctor. This plan is especially important for families with children and elderly relatives.
Psychoeducation
We explain to relatives that addiction is an illness with well-understood mechanisms, not a weakness of character. We describe how withdrawal develops, why a person makes promises and then relapses, and what cravings and remission are. Understanding reduces guilt and anger, helps families stop taking relapses as a personal insult and helps them choose actions that genuinely help.
Training in constructive communication
The psychotherapist teaches how to talk about the problem without blame: at a sober moment, calmly, using “I-statements,” with specific facts and an offer of help. Situations that usually end in a fight are rehearsed. The family learns to support their loved one’s sober steps and not to reinforce substance use with money, excuses and cleaning up the consequences.
Support for the relatives themselves
Living alongside a person with an addiction for a long time is exhausting: insomnia, anxiety, depression and physical illness set in. The Narcology 24 psychotherapist helps relatives restore their own boundaries, routine and interests. If depression or anxiety is severe, a relative may need to see a psychiatrist. We also point families to mutual support groups for relatives that meet in Almaty.
Myths and facts
MythUntil he wants it himself, nothing can be done
FactMotivation for treatment builds gradually, and the family’s behavior has a strong influence on it. Consistent changes at home often bring a person to a doctor before they “hit rock bottom.”
MythHe can be cured in secret by slipping him medication
FactSlipping someone medication is not acceptable: combined with alcohol or drugs, it can cause severe reactions, up to and including death. Any treatment is carried out only with the patient’s informed consent.
MythIt’s the person with the addiction who needs a consultation, not me
FactRelatives live under chronic stress and often need help themselves. Besides, it is the family who sees the person every day and can have a gentle but noticeable influence on their decision to get treatment.
How a home visit works
- Call or message usThe dispatcher answers 24/7 and in 3–5 minutes checks the person's condition, age, how long the drinking or use has lasted, chronic conditions and the address. No surname needed.
- The doctor sets offAn addiction doctor or psychiatrist comes with equipment and medication. Travel time depends on the district — usually within an hour. If inpatient care or an ambulance is needed, we'll say so straight away.
- Examination and treatmentBlood pressure, pulse, oxygen saturation, blood sugar if needed and a neurological check. Then an IV drip or other treatment as indicated, 1–3 hours.
- A plan for the next daysAdvice for the family on what to do overnight and tomorrow, phone follow-up and a repeat visit if needed.
- Further treatmentCoding, psychotherapy, rehab or psychiatric follow-up — once the acute state has passed and the person is ready.
Prices in Almaty
| Online addiction doctor consultation | 10 000 ₸ |
| In-person addiction doctor consultation | 12 000 ₸ |
| Family consultation | 12 000 ₸ |
| Phone advice | free |
The final cost is agreed before treatment starts. Prices are in tenge and do not constitute a public offer.
Where to get help
Narcology 24 in Almaty: our duty team makes home visits day and night, usually within an hour (all city districts and nearby settlements). Two branches for appointments and procedures — 84 Zhandosova St., Almaty and 21 Seyfullina Ave., office 11, Almaty. When indicated, we arrange admission and transport.
Confidential and private
in Almaty our doctor can come in ordinary clothes in an unmarked car. Treatment documents are given only to the patient. If you need a certificate or sick note, this is discussed separately and only at your request.
Questions and answers
Do I need to bring the person with the addiction to the consultation?
No. The consultation for relatives is held without them, and that is completely normal. Many families come first, and the person joins later, once they see that something has changed at home. The doctor will help you choose the right moment and the right words for a conversation about treatment so that it doesn’t feel like pressure.
Can I get a consultation at night if the situation is acute?
Yes, the on-call doctor is available around the clock. If your loved one has a severe hangover, a prolonged binge or is behaving strangely after using, the doctor will assess the danger by phone or video and send a team if needed. If there is a threat to life, call 103 or 112 right away.
How many sessions will the family need?
Sometimes a single consultation is enough to ease acute panic and make a plan. Changing long-established patterns in relationships usually takes 4–6 sessions or more. Sessions can be held by video, which is convenient for relatives who live in different districts, such as Medeu and Nauryzbay, or in different cities.
What should I do if my loved one threatens me or becomes aggressive?
Your safety matters more than any attempt at persuasion. Go somewhere safe, take the children with you and call 102 or 112. Don’t try to take alcohol or drugs away by force. Once the situation has stabilized, the doctor will help you decide what to do next and whether hospital admission is needed.
Can a relative be admitted to the clinic against their will?
No. The clinic provides treatment on a voluntary basis only. Involuntary treatment is possible only by court decision under the procedure established by the law of the Republic of Kazakhstan. We can explain how that procedure works, but in most cases it is more productive to motivate the person than to seek compulsory treatment.
How can I support my loved one after discharge?
It is important to keep a calm routine and avoid checks and interrogations, but also not to turn a blind eye to signs of relapse. Praise specific sober steps and agree on a plan of action for when cravings hit. Narcology 24 doctors continue to counsel families after treatment, which lowers the risk of relapse.
Where do doctors visit in Almaty and where are the branches?
Home visits cover all city districts and nearby settlements, 24/7. Appointments at two branches: 84 Zhandosova St., Almaty and 21 Seyfullina Ave., office 11, Almaty. Phone in Almaty: +7 (700) 309-29-88.
Sources and methodology
This page was prepared by the Narcology 24 medical editorial team based on:
- International Classification of Diseases ICD-10 and ICD-11, World Health Organization
- Clinical diagnosis and treatment protocols of the Ministry of Health of the Republic of Kazakhstan
- Code of the Republic of Kazakhstan “On Public Health and the Healthcare System”
- NICE (UK) guidelines on alcohol and drug misuse and mental health conditions
- WHO recommendations on the treatment of substance use disorders
This information is for reference only and does not replace a consultation with a specialist. Editorial policy



